{"id":107,"date":"2004-04-02T00:15:00","date_gmt":"2004-04-02T08:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/2004\/04\/02\/an-inquisitive-mind-wants-to-know\/"},"modified":"2007-05-04T10:40:19","modified_gmt":"2007-05-04T18:40:19","slug":"an-inquisitive-mind-wants-to-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/2004\/04\/02\/an-inquisitive-mind-wants-to-know\/","title":{"rendered":"An inquisitive mind wants to know"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I realized something that is probably what keeps me from getting closer to new friends&#8230; I&#8217;m not nosy enough.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nHow else do you get close to someone other than spilling your guts to them?  And if a friend asked me nosy questions, I generally wouldn&#8217;t mind and would most likely answer. But I hesitate to poke my nose into other people&#8217;s business because it might be rude, and so I think I miss opportunities for intimacy (the friendship kind) and secret-sharing.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve noticed that the people I&#8217;ve gotten close to in recent years tend to be outgoing types who don&#8217;t wait to be asked before sharing.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nI guess the lesson here is that I need to start prying a little sometimes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I realized something that is probably what keeps me from getting closer to new friends&#8230; I&#8217;m not nosy enough. &nbsp; How else do you get close to someone other than spilling your guts to them? And if a friend asked me nosy questions, I generally wouldn&#8217;t mind and would most likely answer. But I hesitate [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mynameiskate.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}